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When Trekkies Wed: a Star Trek-themed ceremony, vows, and officiant dressed as Q

Seattle-based officiant Elaine Way was contacted by our Trekkie couple of the day (John and Becky) and asked if she would dress in full character for their ceremony. The character they had in mind was none other than Q , aka John DeLancie's omnipotent and playfully meddlesome character from Next Generation. Says Elaine:

I was contacted by Becky and John and asked if I would be their officiant. They explained that their theme was “sci-fi” and they wanted me to dress as “Q” from Star Trek the Next Generation. Natch, I said yes. I hired a professional make-up artist from MAC and transformed myself into “Q.” I watched videos of Star Trek the Next Generation while having my make-up done so I could get in character. It was a blast and I would do it all over again if asked.

Since Becky and John are full-blown Trekkies, we also have the entire ceremony AND a wedding video after the jump: Processional Wedding Party and groom enter with harp music playing something Star Trekky Bridal Song: Harp playing Prelude from Final Fantasy , bride entering ———— Stand Mortals!

We call ourselves the Q!

I welcome all to witness the marriage of these two humans, John Hohengarten and Becky Flees.

The Q continuum has become quite interested in the ridiculous tradition of marriage and I have come to officiate this primitive human ceremony.

Though it may be tedious, I ask you to refrain from leaving or falling asleep.

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Reflections on the couple

In studying the institution of marriage, the Q have studied this couple — in particular — John and Becky. These two met on your primitive communication matrix you call the internet. They were bonded by their love of video games and all things geeky and nerdy, as well as their love for one another. Early on, they knew they would be spending the rest of their lives together. They serve as a prime example of What you humans call love and commitment, which is why the Q have chosen them.

Reflections on marriage

As the Q have studied the tradition of marriage, we have learned much about how humans live with one another; and frankly, I find it disturbing. So much sharing and co-dependence. Why would you agree to such a thing?

To Becky and John: Don't you realize you'll be sharing each other's space, eating the same food and breathing the same air? Forever? Does that not… repulse you? Becky and John: Us — no. Well, if you are quite sure — then it is time to state your vows and sign away your freedom. If you must… please step forward and take each other's hands.

Vows Now then, mon capitan, Does your heart beat only for this woman? Groom: “Yes” Officiant: And will you swear to join with her and stand with her against All who would oppose you? Groom: “I swear, make it so” Ma Cherie, Does your heart beat only for this man? Bride: “Yes” And will you swear to join with him and stand with him against All who would oppose you? Bride: “I swear” And don't you have something to give each other? Which of you mortals has the rings? If you must — you may now exchange your rings.

Rings John : Take this ring as a token of my undying love and affection. I promise to share everything with you, which is including, but not limited to, my video games, DVDs and board games. I promise to care for you when you are sick and be by your side through any challenge. Becky: Take this ring as a token of my undying love and affection. I promise to share everything with you, which is including, but not limited to, my video games, dvds and board games. I promise to care for you when you are sick and be by your side through any challenge. May the odds be ever in your favor and may you live long and prosper.

Kiss Officiant: You two mortals may kiss one another (yawn)… if you wish. (kiss) You are out of order!

Presentation On behalf of the Q continuum, you are now condemned to make the best of your miserable and savage lives together as husband and wife.

Announcements Please stay for Earth delicacies known as “cheeseburgers” and “potato salad” and more.

Recessional: Princess Bride theme

And if that's not enough, you can see the entire ceremony in this video by Christopher Oh:

Officiant: Elaine Way Photographer: Mike Sanabia Video: Christopher Oh Harpist: Alishia Joubert

About the Author: Stephanie Kaloi

I was the editor of the now-defunct Offbeat Families, and owner/photographer at Stephanie Kaloi Photography in Portland, OR.

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Comments on When Trekkies Wed: a Star Trek-themed ceremony, vows, and officiant dressed as Q

Oh my god Q, that’s amazing.

HIGH FIVE, excellent comment.

I respect how people self-identify and use their deity of choice when taking the name of the Lord in vain!

…..that sounded better in my head.

HA! Love that.

What a great officiant.

Holy crap! That is effing epic.

I can’t believe how wonderful this is! How impossibly fun…and what a catch to find an officiant that not only was ready to adorn themselves appropriately and able to pull off a Q perspective!

And the Harpists arrangement! So happy and upbeat!

Ms. Way – you have now been added to my list of Reasons I Think I Want To Move To Seattle. Fantastic job!!

Laura, I can give you about a b’zillion more reasons to move to Seattle, if you like. I am a native and I have been here almost my entire life. I can’t tell you the number of people who have come to Seattle just to get married. It’s pretty awesome.

Thanks for the complement on the “Q” performance…eh, wedding

Aw! I shed a tear for those vows and the ending. Fantastic ceremony.

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Marrying Among the Stars: How to Plan a Star Trek Themed Wedding

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In the vast world of love, there’s a unique place where Star Trek fans take their passion to a whole new level—celebrating their commitment with a Star Trek themed wedding . For Trekkie couples, this isn’t just any wedding; it’s a cosmic adventure filled with creativity, imagination and a shared love for Star Trek. In this blog post, we’ll guide you through the exciting journey of planning your own Trekkie-themed wedding, where your love story meets the final frontier.

Adding Trekkie Charm: Navigating the Galaxy of Star Trek Wedding Planning

Planning any wedding is an adventure, but for Trekkies, it’s a chance to boldly go where no couple has gone before. The heart of a Star Trek themed wedding lies in infusing your unique personalities and love for Star Trek into every detail. It’s about creating an experience that truly reflects your love and your passion for Star Trek.

As you start this cosmic journey, you’ll encounter challenges and chances to get creative. One of the joys of planning a Trekkie wedding is turning traditional wedding customs into extraordinary Trekkie moments.

Setting the Starfleet Scene: Choosing the Perfect Venue and Decor

Starfleet Headquarters Inspired Venue: Imagine hosting your Star Trek themed wedding at a modern venue with sleek, minimalist designs reminiscent of Starfleet Headquarters. Crisp lines, metallic accents, and a clean, futuristic aesthetic would transport your guests into the world of “Star Trek: The Next Generation.”

Deep Space Nine-Inspired Docking Bay: For a more industrial yet space-inspired setting, consider a venue that resembles a docking bay on Deep Space Nine. This could include exposed brickwork, industrial lighting, and even a replica of the Promenade for guests to explore. It’s a nod to the vibrant and diverse world of “Star Trek: Deep Space Nine.”

Planet Vulcan-Inspired Outdoor Venue: If you’re aiming for an outdoor celebration, picture a venue surrounded by arid landscapes resembling the Vulcan homeworld. This setting could feature rock formations, desert plants, and a colour palette inspired by Vulcan’s serene beauty. It’s a tribute to the iconic planet from “Star Trek: The Original Series” and the “Star Trek” reboot films.

Transforming Your Venue with Trekkie Decor

Starfleet Banners and Insignias: Adorn your venue with flags and banners bearing Starfleet insignias, representing the noble mission of exploration from “Star Trek: The Next Generation” and beyond. These symbols can be integrated into tablecloths, backdrops, and even the aisle runner.

Transporter-Inspired Entrance: Create a grand entrance with a backdrop that mimics the sparkling effect of a Starfleet transporter beam. As guests enter, they’ll feel like they’re on the starship’s transporter pad.

Star Trek-Inspired Centerpieces: Take inspiration from various Star Trek series for your centrepieces. For instance, replicate the famous tri-dimensional chess set from “Star Trek: The Original Series” as a centrepiece, or use miniature starships as table decor, echoing the iconic starship models that often graced the desks of Starfleet officers.

Twinkling Fairy Lights: To recreate the enchanting ambience of a starry night sky, hang strings of twinkling fairy lights across your venue. This touch brings to mind the breathtaking views of the cosmos.

Metallic Accents and Futuristic Touches: Incorporate metallic accents throughout your decor, such as silver or gold tableware and metallic-finish vases. These elements evoke the high-tech aesthetics of starship interiors.

Holographic Projections: For an extra dose of futuristic flair, consider using holographic projections for your decor. These can showcase scenes from various “Star Trek” series, allowing your guests to immerse themselves in the show’s universe.

By selecting a venue and decor elements inspired by specific aspects of the “Star Trek” franchise, you’ll transport your guests into a world of cosmic wonder, where the line between fiction and reality blurs, and the love story unfolds against a backdrop of the final frontier.

Captivating Attire: Bridal and Groom Looks Inspired by the Stars

For brides who are Trekkie fans, wedding attire goes beyond the traditional. Here are some captivating ideas:

Celestial Gowns: Imagine walking down the aisle in a wedding gown that captures the magic of the cosmos. These dresses may feature intricate star patterns, celestial embroidery, or shimmering metallic fabrics that evoke the beauty of the night sky. Some designers even offer gowns inspired by the ethereal qualities of nebulae, creating a truly mesmerising effect.

Star Trek-Inspired Jewelry: To complement the celestial theme, consider accessorising with Star Trek-inspired jewellery. A necklace with a delicate Starfleet insignia pendant, earrings resembling starship silhouettes, or a bracelet adorned with cosmic charms can add a touch of Trekkie elegance to your bridal ensemble.

Twinkling Crystal Details: Enhance the celestial vibe with accessories that sparkle like distant stars. Crystal-encrusted hairpins, hair combs, or tiaras can add a bit more sparkle to your hairstyle. These subtle details can mimic the shimmering beauty of stars against the night sky.

Custom Veils: For brides seeking a unique touch, consider a custom-made veil featuring starry or galaxy-themed lace appliques. As you walk down the aisle, it will create a stunning visual effect reminiscent of a cosmic journey.

Trekkie-themed wedding attire isn’t limited to brides. Grooms and groomsmen can also embrace the theme in style:

Starfleet Uniforms: For the ultimate Trekkie look, grooms can opt for Starfleet uniforms. Whether replicating the iconic uniforms from “Star Trek: The Next Generation” or the sleek styles of “Star Trek: Discovery,” these uniforms bring an authentic touch to your wedding. Groomsmen can join in by selecting uniforms in different divisions—command, science, or operations.

Playful Accessories: It’s all in the details. Grooms and groomsmen can add playful Star Trek touches to their traditional attire. Consider Trekkie-themed bow ties featuring starship designs, cufflinks adorned with Starfleet insignias, or socks adorned with memorable quotes from the series. These subtle accessories infuse a dash of Trekkie spirit into the ensemble.

Starfleet Pocket Squares: A clever way to introduce Star Trek’s vibrant colour palette is by incorporating it into the pocket squares. Grooms and groomsmen can each wear a pocket square in one of the iconic Starfleet colours—red, gold, or blue. This not only adds a playful element but also pays homage to the series.

Star Trek Boutonnieres: Instead of traditional floral boutonnieres, consider Trekkie-inspired alternatives. Craft boutonnieres using miniature starship models or insignia pins. These unique boutonnieres showcase your love for Star Trek while adding a distinctive touch to the groom and groomsmen’s attire.

Unique Traditions: Creating Star Trek Themed Wedding Rituals

The Vulcan Vow: During your vows, embrace the Vulcan salute, a symbol of greeting and farewell in Vulcan culture. The gesture signifies not just love but also a deep connection of shared logic and understanding. As you exchange this salute, you’re not only committing to each other but also to a life governed by reason and empathy.

Klingon Unity Ceremony: In a Klingon-inspired tradition, share a drink from the same ceremonial chalice known as a “ch’kari.” This ritual symbolises your willingness to face life’s challenges as a united front. Just as Klingons believe in loyalty to their comrades, this gesture represents your unyielding commitment to one another, no matter what obstacles lie ahead.

Trekkie Rings: Your choice of wedding rings can be a subtle yet meaningful nod to Star Trek. Consider rings with engravings like “Live Long and Prosper” or starship designs etched onto the bands. These rings serve as constant reminders of your love and your shared passion for exploring the stars together.

Engaging Entertainment: Immersing Guests in the Star Trek Universe

Star Trek Trivia Game: Challenge your guests’ knowledge of the Star Trek universe with a fun trivia game. Prepare questions about characters, starships, famous episodes, and even obscure facts. Guests can form teams or play individually, making it an entertaining and interactive experience for Trekkies and non-Trekkies alike.

Cosplay Booth: Transform a corner of your reception area into a cosplay booth where guests can embrace their inner Trekkie. Provide a selection of Star Trek costumes and props, allowing everyone to dress up as their favorite characters. A photo backdrop featuring a starship or iconic Star Trek location adds to the authenticity of the experience.

Photo Ops with Replica Props: Set up a dedicated area for guests to take photos with replica Star Trek props. Include tricorders, phasers, and communicators that are faithfully recreated from the series. These props not only make for fantastic photo opportunities but also allow guests to connect with the Star Trek universe on a tactile level.

“Holodeck” Dance Floor: Turn your dance floor into a mesmerising “holodeck” experience. Use projection technology to display a starry night sky or iconic Star Trek vistas. As guests dance under the simulated stars, they’ll feel like they’re truly part of the Trek universe, adding a magical element to your reception.

Elegant Favors: Sending Guests Home with Trekkie Memories

Star Trek Keychains: Give your guests engraved keychains featuring your wedding date as a keepsake. Each time they use their keychain, they’ll be reminded of your cosmic celebration and the love that brought them together.

Customised Starfleet Badges: Personalise Starfleet badges with your names and wedding date. These badges are not just favours; they’re tokens of your shared journey through the final frontier of love.

Miniature Starships: Provide small replicas of iconic starships as wedding favours. These mini starships are tangible reminders of the adventures and possibilities that lie ahead in your shared journey.

Love Across the Stars and Beyond

A Star Trek themed wedding isn’t just a ceremony; it’s an exploration of love across time and space . It’s a celebration of shared passions and a commitment to boldly go through life together. As you embark on this cosmic journey, may your wedding day be filled with unforgettable Trekkie moments.

Remember, your wedding is a reflection of your unique love story. So, fellow Trekkies, embrace love at warp speed and revel in the cosmic connection that unites you.

To learn more about planning your Trekkie wedding, explore our website at TrekDating.com. Here, you’ll find the community to create the Star Trek wedding of your dreams.

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How To Watch All Star Trek TV Shows In Timeline Order

Star trek: deep space nine cast & character guide, star trek: voyager cast & character guide.

• Star Trek showcases diverse romantic storytelling and inclusive representation through LGBTQ+ relationships.
• Various iconic Star Trek characters are highlighted to emphasize the depth of their relationships and personal growth.
• Star Trek's commitment to core values is evident as relationships flourish through adversity, shaping characters' development.

Star Trek has a long, impressive history of detailed character developments and moments of personal growth, with romantic interest and love playing a strong role in that distinguished legacy. At every rank and social status, character romances and weddings blossom throughout th e Star Trek franchise. From Captain James T. Kirk (William Shatner) officiating an ill-fated wedding ceremony in the USS Enterprise’s on-board chapel in Star Trek: The Original Series , season 1, episode 8, “Balance Of Terror” (1966) to Commander William Riker (Jonathan Frakes) and Counselor Deanna Troi’s (Marina Sirtis) long-awaited wedding in Star Trek: Nemesis (2003), there’s no shortage of affection or long-term relationships amidst Starfleet’s finest .

Star Trek's newest shows have upped the ante regarding diverse romantic storytelling and wider, inclusive representation, introducing LGBTQ+ relationships, rich new characters, and developing previously established ones. Star Trek: Discovery platforms romantically committed couples and new characters, whereas Star Trek: Picard enhances characters such as Seven of Nine (Jeri Ryan) – lending emotional investment through Seven's burgeoning relationship with Commander Raffi Musiker (Michelle Hurd) . In keeping with Star Trek 's core values, these relationships come together through adversity to become more than the sum of their parts. And, in the interest of 'happy ever after,' here's a rundown of weddings that need to happen in Star Trek .

The Star Trek TV franchise has existed for 57 years and consists of 12 shows (and counting). Here's how to watch them all in timeline order.

10 Commander Spock and Lieutenant Uhura

Star trek (2009), star trek into darkness (2013), star trek beyond (2016).

Though controversial among fans, J.J. Abrams' Star Trek movies introduced Spock (Zachary Quinto) and Nyota Uhura (Zoe Saldana) as romantically linked. First seen together in Star Trek (2009), their deep connection is apparent when Uhura provides emotional support to Spock - cornering him after the destruction of Vulcan, kissing him, and asking, " What do you need? " In Star Trek Into Darkness , Spock's almost self-sacrifice in Nibiru's erupting volcano leads Uhura to doubt the depth of Spock's regard. The couple split in Star Trek Beyond but reunite, finally sure of their place, echoing the movie's central theme. Given the adversities overcome to reach each other, this couple deserves every happiness.

Star Trek (2009)

Star trek into darkness, star trek beyond, 9 captain christopher pike and captain marie batel, star trek: strange new worlds.

Captain Christopher Pike (Anson Mount) and Captain Marie Batel (Melanie Scofano) balance their romance with starship commands and distinct finite pressures from Pike's knowledge of his unfortunate future fate. Captain Marie Batel is kidnapped and infected by the Gorn in the Star Trek: Strange New Worlds season 2 finale , "Hegemony." This provides clear uncertainty about Pike and Batel's future and, given Strange New Worlds ' setting on the franchise's timeline, Captain Pike's already etched fate dooms the couple to inevitable tragedy . But if Batel survives the Gorn in Strange New Worlds s eason 3, Marie and Chris could marry, even if that relationship is dissolved by Star Trek: The Original Series .

8 Lieutenant Shaxs and Doctor T'Ana

Star trek: lower decks.

These accomplished upper deck USS Cerritos officers may lean heavier into the more physical aspects of their relationship, but there's no doubt that Star Trek: Lower Decks ' Lieutenant Shaxs (Fred Tatasciore) and Dr. T'Ana (Gillian Vigman) share a genuine emotional connection . Haunted by his experiences in the Bajoran resistance, Shaxs battles past traumas, and Dr. T'Ana's profession and personality allow for keen insight and acceptance regarding this. Shaxs' gentle nature provides tenderness and care for T'Ana in return that her otherwise gruff and proud countenance would not otherwise allow for. Though perhaps not an obvious pairing, these upper-deckers could make it official in Star Trek: Lower Decks season 5 .

7 Doctor Julian Bashir and Lieutenant Ezri Dax

Star trek: deep space nine.

Though the longevity of the relationship between Dr. Julian Bashir (Alexander Siddig) and Lt. Ezri Dax (Nicole de Boer) remained open-ended and uncertain at the culmination of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine , the couple shared a heartfelt and timeless love. Initially awkward and confused regarding their feelings for each other , the DS9 officers avoided each other before finally confronting and admitting their shared attraction. The admissions resulted in a passionate turbolift-based kiss and a romantic night together on the eve of the final battle of Star Trek's Dominion War . An upcoming Star Trek wedding for this regarded, smitten couple could allow for some fun DS9 nostalgia, positive continuation, and closure.

Star Trek: Deep Space Nine had the biggest cast of characters of any Trek show, meaning that Captain Sisko had numerous allies in the Dominion War.

6 Nurse Christine Chapel and Doctor Roger Korby

Star Trek: Strange New Worlds season 2 alludes to the yet-to-come romance between Nurse Christine Chapel (Jess Bush) and respected scientist Dr. Roger Korby. First detailed in Star Trek: The Original Series , Dr. Korby (Michael Strong) was the missing fiancé of the USS Enterprise's head nurse (Majel Barrett), whose specialty in archaeological medicine led to his disappearance during an expedition to Exo III. Unaware of the life-changing events and relationship ahead, Bush's Christine Chapel accepts a three-month fellowship alongside Dr. Korby in Star Trek: Strange New Worlds , season 2, episode 9, "Subspace Rhapsody." A retconned Strange New Worlds season 3 wedding could intensify this anticipated plotline and cleverly progress the prime universe's established path.

5 Captain Michael Burnham and Cleveland Booker

Star trek: discovery.

Michael found the empathic Book to be her light in the darkness.

Crashing into each other's lives, Captain Michael Burnham (Sonequa Martin-Green) and 32nd Century courier Cleveland Booker V (David Ajala) came together from two very different times. Despite their initial suspicions and past traumas, Michael and Book quickly unite over shared needs and intrinsic values to help each other survive. Suddenly alone at the beginning of Star Trek: Discovery season 3, Michael found the empathic Book to be her light in the darkness, and their later budding romance quickly progressed to an emotionally investing, chemistry-laden connection. Through ongoing adversities and uncertainties, Michael and Book bring out the best in each other and lend strength to maintain a resonating and genuine love.

4 Captain Saru and President T'Rina

Initially united through politics and shared compassion, Captain Saru (Doug Jones) and President T'Rina of Ni-Var (Tara Rosling) share a gentle, slow-burning, and delicate relationship that surprises and warms each party. Steady and unhurried, the Kelpien Saru and Vulcan T'Rina's sparkling yet soft togetherness is at once remarkably wholesome and respectful of their mixed cultures and heritage. With time displacement also a factor, their measured romance is perhaps unlikely but deliberately careful and ultimately heartening and uplifting. Holding hands in a pivotal moment at the end of Star Trek: Discovery season 4, Saru and T'Rina's relationship could progress in season 5 for the first Kelpian-Vulcan wedding.

3 Admiral Kathryn Janeway and Captain Chakotay

Star trek: prodigy, star trek: voyager.

The ongoing relationship between these characters in a different setting allows for development without the constraints of Janeway's complex Voyager command.

Speculation as to a romance between Captain Kathryn Janeway (Kate Mulgrew) and Commander Chakotay (Robert Beltram) followed much of Star Trek: Voyager's seven seasons. Despite no involvement ever solidifying between them over this time, the flirtatious tension and obvious emotional connection remained solid. Chakotay even builds Janeway a bathtub in Voyager season 2, episode 25, "Resolutions," when the pair are stranded on a planet to ward off the effects of a contracted disease. With Chakotay's later disappearance in Star Trek: Prodigy , Admiral Janeway returns to the Delta Quadrant to bring him home. The ongoing relationship between these characters in a different setting allows for development without the constraints of Janeway's complex Voyager command.

In its seven seasons, Star Trek: Voyager introduced many new faces to the Trek universe. Here is a breakdown of the show's main cast and characters.

2 Captain Seven of Nine and Commander Raffi Musiker

Star trek: picard.

Star Trek: Picard did much to develop the role of Seven of Nine (Jeri Ryan) and introduce significant - and flawed - new characters. Promoted at the end of Picard season 3, Captain Seven of Nine finally seems at peace with her place in things - her partner, Commander Raffi Musiker (Michelle Hurd) , at her side. Both Seven and Raffi navigate significant emotional trauma , with fears and addictions to overcome. They come together nonetheless, with past hurts instead working to strengthen their bond and aid each other's healing. Seven and Raffi are worthy inclusions on this list, having more than earned their right to a Star Trek wedding.

1 Admiral Jean-Luc Picard and Admiral Beverly Crusher

Star trek: the next generation, star trek: picard.

Captain Jean-Luc Picard (Patrick Stewart) and Dr. Beverly Crusher (Gates McFadden) had obvious chemistry and a shared romantic interest in Star Trek: The Next Generation but never entirely transitioned from best friends to a committed romance. Their relationship progressed sometime following Star Trek: Nemesis with the arrival of a son , Jack Crusher (Ed Speleers). Though Picard was unaware of Jack's existence until Star Trek: Picard season 3, this returned Beverly Crusher to his life as family. Despite the events of the series' end, the longevity of Picard and Crusher's uncertain romance - and their son - could efficiently reunite them, their wedding the Star Trek event of the century.

Every Star Trek series (except Star Trek: Prodigy) and J.J. Abrams’ Kelvin Universe movies are available for streaming on Paramount+.

Star Trek: Prodigy is available to stream on Netflix.

Star Trek Movies I-X are available for streaming on Max.

Star Trek: The Original Series

Star trek: the next generation, star trek: voyager, star trek: prodigy.

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By Dyanna Volek

This Star Trek themed wedding ceremony script helps you boldly go where you have not gone before -- the final frontier of marriage! It contains references and quotes from The Next Generation TNG and The Original Series TOS for an out-of-this-world voyage. Written by AMM Minister Dyanna Volek. Quotes from Captain Picard and Spock on the nature of love, life, and change.

This original wedding script is inspired by Star Trek: The Next Generation and written by AMM Minister Dyanna Volek.

You'll find quotes and references from both TNG and The Original Series. Modify this wedding script with your own favorite moments from the Star Trek franchise, or use it as-is for a sweet and simple voyage into the final frontier of marriage. Perfect for a small elopement ceremony, or invite the whole Starfleet for an unforgettable adventure!

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Get married on mars*: plan an out of this world destination wedding, procession / processional .

• Ceremony begins.

INVOCATION & INTRODUCTION OF COUPLE

Officiant to the reception and couple

Since the days of the first wooden sailing ships, all captains have enjoyed the happy privilege of joining together two people in the bonds of matrimony. And so it is my honor to unite you, (Partner A) and (Partner B), together in matrimony.

(X) years ago, you met as friends and over time fell in love. Now you are ready for marriage -- The final frontier. Your mission: to boldly go where you have not gone before.

DECLARATION OF INTENT 

Officiant to the couple

(Partner A) and (Partner B), you will be crew members, standing together, exploring new worlds, and seeking out new civilizations and new adventures. You will have each other’s backs in times of trouble.

A wise Vulcan once said that “Change is the essential process of all existence.” Nurture your marriage carefully, and watch it grow with care. Remember, it’s a one-way trip.

• above quote from Spock, star trek Tos, S03E15, "let that be your last battlefield"

Officiant to Partner A

Do you, (Partner A), take (Partner B) to be your spouse? To be each other’s Number One on this journey through the galaxy together?

Make it so.

• Or for a traditional response, Partner A answers "I do."

Officiant to Partner B

Do you, (Partner B), take (Partner A) to be your spouse? To be each other’s Number One on this journey through the galaxy together?

• Or for a traditional response, partner b answers "I do."

RING & VOW EXCHANGE  

The wedding ring, an unbroken circle, represents unending love. Love, like time, is eternal. When you look at these rings, remember this moment and the love you have promised to one another. 

• During the following portion of the exchange, the officiant will share 'call-and-response' style wedding vows. Each partner will repeat the vows when it's their turn. 

(Partner A), please place the ring on (Partner B's) hand and share these words.

I give you this ring as a symbol of my love,

and my choice to share this mission with you.

I give you this ring and vow to follow our Prime Directive --

To love you always.

• Partner A places the ring on partner b's hand.

(Partner B), please place the ring on (Partner A's) hand and share these words.

• Partner B places the ring on partner a's hand.

PRONOUNCEMENT  

As you embark on this new voyage today, remember these words from another great Captain:

"Seize the time... Live now! Make now always the most precious time. Now will never come again.”

Love each other now, today, tomorrow, and always. 

By virtue of the authority vested in me by Starfleet Command, the state of (Name of State), and American Marriage Ministries, I now pronounce you married.

May you both live long and prosper! 

• the couple kisses and guests cheer.
• above quote from Captian Picard, TNG episode S5E25 "the inner light"

ANNOUNCEMENT / INTRODUCTION

Officiant to the reception

Ladies and gentlemen, I am proud to present for the first time, the newlyweds! 

RECESSION / RECESSIONAL 

Ceremony ends.

Original wedding script by Wedding Officiant Dyanna Volek.

Dyanna lives in California where she operates  W.E.D. by Dyanna . She became a Deputy Marriage Commissioner in 2016. She was ordained by American Marriage Ministries in 2020. She has officiated hundreds of weddings of all types and is passionate about uniting couples the way they want to be married.

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Star trek: nemesis.

• Extended Wedding Sequence - Originally, Riker and Troi's wedding was much longer and featured Wesley Crusher (played by Wil Wheaton) in attendance. (He is still sitting next to Dr. Crusher in the theatrical version) Also during the wedding, Picard opens up to Lt. Commander Data and reveals his dismay over being a private loner all his life.
• The Seduction of Counselor Troi - In the original three-hour version, Shinzon's obsession with Troi runs much deeper and there are several scenes that show him seducing and tormenting her in her mind. A scene featured in the theatrical trailers show Troi struggling with the mind meld inflicted by Shinzon and his Viceroy. You still see the effects of the torturous mind meld in the theatrical version as Troi appears fatigued and psychologically drained.
• A scene of Data teaching his brother B-4 how to eat with a fork.
• Ambassador Worf and Dr. Crusher were also featured more prominently in the three-hour version and it was revealed that Worf was on his way back to Kronos after leaving Deep Space Nine and he was featured in more action sequences that were deleted from the theatrical release. Dr. Crusher is revealed to be considering leaving the Enterprise after receiving an offer from Starfleet Medical.
• Footage of Geordi and Data planning and executing the mission to rescue Picard on board the Scimitar was also deleted and featured the swapping places of Data and B-4.
• Extended ending - Riker and Troi board the USS Titan as he takes command as Captain and she resumes her job as ship's counselor. The instatement of a new First Officer on the Enterprise is shown. Picard bids farewell to Dr. Crusher as she accepts the offer from Starfleet Medical and leaves for San Francisco.
• A private conversation between Picard and Data over a glass of wine.
• Early introduction of Shinzon in the film (right after the wedding reception). This is the scene that includes the dialogue from the theatrical trailers, "But in darkness there is strength...(Viceroy)" and "The time we have dreamed of is at hand... the mighty Federation will fall before us...(Shinzon)."
• The second rape scene of Counselor Troi in a turbolift.
• A scene of Picard walking with Troi down a corridor and Troi explaining to him that he and Shinzon are two different people. This scene includes the line from the trailer, "It was like a part of me had been stolen...(Picard)."
• Sickbay getting ready for battle, a short dialogue between Dr. Crusher and Picard is shown.
• Worf warning Picard about the Romulans just before they leave for Romulus. This scene includes the dialogue from the trailer, "I recommend extreme caution...(Worf)."
• Original extended ending - A new First Officer is introduced on board the Enterprise and two funny moments are shown afterward. Instead of ending while the Enterprise is docked above Earth, this new ending shows the Enterprise flying away.
• In the version released in Singapore, the words "Star Trek" did not appear in the title screen or in the movie advertisements. The film was billed solely as "Nemesis".

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• 1.3 Act Two
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• 1.5 Act Four
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Summary [ ]

Celebrations over the recent Allied victory continue on the Promenade

Captain Sisko looks out on the second level of the Promenade with satisfaction as the flags of the Federation , the Klingon Empire , and Bajor are unfurled side by side from a rail, and the commerce of the Promenade resumes heartily, populated by the station's civilian population, and a mix of officers from Starfleet , the Bajoran Militia , and the Klingon Defense Force . Even though the Federation is still at war with the Dominion , the celebrations over Starfleet's return to the station are continuing and the atmosphere on the station is that of a happy one.

In Ops , Sisko arrives for work and he and Major Kira warmly wish each other a good morning, noting how happy they are to be working together again. However the captain has a lot of work in front on him, beginning with General Martok waiting in his office.

" Good morning, captain. " " Do you know how much I missed hearing you say that? "

Martok, who has just been appointed Supreme Commander of the Ninth Fleet, is more angry than honored, ranting about the amount of paperwork that comes with the position. Sisko, who recommended him for the position, smiles and offers his congratulations, and offers to arrange quarters for the general aboard his new headquarters. Martok declines, preferring to keep his cramped berth aboard the Rotarran , so that he can at least feel like he's still "in the war." He requests Sisko's permission to have Worf continue serving as his principal intelligence officer, and Sisko agrees, noting that Worf seems to be the only officer he's met who can never have enough work. The conversation then drifts to Worf's son Alexander , whom Sisko hasn't met before. Martok, choosing his words carefully, calls Alexander a fine boy with "the heart of his father," but admits he isn't much of a warrior.

In Quark's , Alexander is sharing a drink of bloodwine with his father and Jadzia Dax , telling her about one of his memorable screw-ups aboard the Rotarran (flooding an entire deck with superheated hydraulic fluid ). He says that, despite his clumsiness, he has become surprisingly popular among the Rotarran 's crew, who have come to see him as a sort of "good luck charm." He then surprises his father by mentioning that he has received new orders to transfer to the cruiser IKS Ya'Vang at the end of the week, since they took heavy casualties in an engagement and most of the Rotarran 's crew will be transferring. When Alexander leaves to get more blood wine , Quark approaches the two and asks if they have reconsidered having their wedding in Quark's. Worf tells Quark firmly that the wedding will be held on Qo'noS after the war is over, however Dax, after looking thoughtful during the conversation, suddenly jumps in and agrees to Quark's request. Worf is surprised, but Dax explains that this way Alexander can attend the wedding before he leaves.

When Alexander returns, Worf informs him of their change in plans and asks Alexander to be his Tawi'Yan ("swordbearer"), the Klingon equivalent of a best man . Alexander is so happy about this that he accidentally knocks over a tray of drinks.

Act One [ ]

In a turbolift , Dax and Kira are discussing the wedding, with Dax mentioning Worf has been planning everything for three months. Kira comments the wedding seems to be dominated by what Worf wants, but Dax is all right with that knowing it's what Worf has wanted since he was a boy, and she's already had several weddings. As they talk, they almost run into Odo in a corridor but he sees them and abruptly changes direction to avoid meeting them. Kira tells her it is because of what happened during the occupation of the station, of which Dax has no idea, but she doesn't feel like getting into it at the moment.

Later, Worf meets with Sisko, Martok, Miles O'Brien , and Julian Bashir . He asks them to join Martok and himself in Kal'Hyah , a mental and spiritual journey that lasts for four nights before a Klingon wedding . Martok advises the four to get a good night's sleep before entering. " Four nights at a Klingon bachelor party. Just think of the possibilities, " Bashir tells O'Brien as they leave. O'Brien tells the doctor that he is glad his wife Keiko isn't currently at the station.

Sirella arrives on DS9

Later, Sisko and Martok go to one of the upper pylons to greet Martok's wife Sirella , who has arrived on a Vor'cha -class ship . By marrying Worf, Jadzia will become a member of the House of Martok . As a mistress of a Great House , Sirella approves all the weddings conducted by its members. Sirella greets Martok by telling him he has put on weight – and his hair is going gray. After Sirella tells him she expected him to be in his grave, he tells her he will attempt to die soon – before the year is out if possible. After being introduced to Sisko, she asks where Dax is and goes alone. Martok is in awe of her, though Sisko a tad confused.

Worf is with Dax as she prepares to meet Sirella. He's a bit concerned about the var'Hama candles being replicated, but Dax responds that he is just criticizing and that the meeting will go fine. Then Sirella enters. Dax gives a Klingon greeting, but she responds immediately asking Worf to leave. Then, she continues to be hostile. Sirella tells her that it would be difficult for a Klingon female to impress her and that for an alien it will almost be impossible. Dax says she enjoys a challenge. Sirella demands she prepare the appropriate meal for the following day, and finally, comments on the candles being fake before abruptly leaving.

Act Two [ ]

Aboard the Rotarran , Worf confronts Martok asking him why he never told him Sirella was opposed to his marriage to Jadzia. Martok tells him Sirella believes that by allowing aliens into the House of Martok, they risk losing their Klingon identity. Martok does not want to interfere in Sirella's affairs, either. Worf wants to talk to her, but Martok reveals that Sirella does not like Worf either. Martok mentions that it was his decision to allow Worf into the House of Martok, he had every right to do so, and Sirella has accepted that there is nothing she can do about it. Worf sarcastically tells Martok that he finds that fact comforting. " And they say that you have no sense of humor! ", Martok laughs while Worf scowls at him.

Meanwhile, Sisko, O'Brien, Bashir, and Alexander begin the Kal'Hyah in one of Quark's holosuites , all eager for what they assume will be four days of Klingon debauchery. Worf shows them the Ma'Stakas , that are to be used at the conclusion of the wedding in a ceremonial "attack" on Worf and Dax. This tradition stems from Kahless and Lukara 's wedding when they were nearly killed by Molor 's troops. Worf also mentions that the food sitting nearby is not to be eaten, it is there to tempt them to break their fast . This is the first trial on the path to Kal'Hyah – deprivation (with the other trials being blood, pain, sacrifice, anguish and death). Everyone realizes that they are in for four days of hell.

At the same time, Dax is undergoing a trial of her own. She is holding two braziers and lifts them onto a column, conducting a recitation. Sirella is unimpressed and orders her to do it again. Dax is frustrated, since it has been the third time. Sirella then tells her to end her attempt as she believes the House will not tolerate her weakness and she will always be considered an outsider, clearly expressing her opinion to her. Dax reacts angrily to this and lifts the braziers again.

Act Three [ ]

Dax's next trial is to recite the history of all the women in Sirella's family. Dax is recounting the end of the Second Dynasty , but then tells her that one of Sirella's ancestors who was apparently the daughter of the Klingon emperor Reclaw was in fact a concubine through a little-known fact. This infuriates Sirella, who orders Dax to continue with the "correct" history.

While this is happening, Kira congratulates Jake Sisko on having his stories of life under the Dominion occupation published by the Federation News Service . Odo approaches but once again avoids Kira, who then has Jake ignore it. Kira and Jake then see Sisko, Bashir, O'Brien, and Alexander enter the holosuites again, on the second night of their path to Kal'Hyah , appearing quite serious. This trial is the shedding of blood . Sisko, O'Brien, and Alexander quietly take a step back before Worf and Martok turn around. Although Worf is surprised to see that Bashir has "volunteered" to go first, Bashir is even more surprised. Worf tells the doctor not to worry, as the pain only lasts a few seconds, and approaches him with the knife.

Act Four [ ]

Manuele Atoa concludes his fire dance at Jadzia's pre-wedding festivities

Meanwhile Dax is hosting a raucous party in her quarters with many people including Kira, Nog , Quark, Rom , Leeta , Morn , and Jake. She's invited Lieutenant Manuele Atoa from the USS Sutherland to perform a fire dance . It's a big hit with everyone.

Meanwhile, Bashir and O'Brien are chained to the ceiling above a floor covered with hot coals. Bashir tells O'Brien he is having a vision – he is going to kill Worf. O'Brien agrees with him.

Odo arrives at the party with two Bajoran deputies after receiving complaints about the noise and that he also heard there was a fight. Kira is first at the door, and now he is forced to talk to her. Kira tells Odo the fight was between Morn and a Bolian , but the two are getting along fine now and that she is authorizing the party to continue under her authority as first officer of the station. Odo turns to leave but he and Kira finally realize they have to talk about what happened during the occupation. Allowing his deputies the rest of the night off to enjoy the party, Odo and Kira leave to talk in private as Dax begins to flirt with Atoa following his act.

Soon, Sirella arrives, ignoring everyone there, and tells Dax it is time for the Bre'Nan ritual. Fed up with her, Dax sternly tells her she is busy. Sirella insults her, calling her a Risian slut . Sirella orders her to come with her, or she will cancel the wedding. After Dax refuses, Sirella pulls a d'k tahg . Dax disarms her and punches her in the face. Sirella leaves and Dax forces the party to resume.

The next morning, Dax wakes up with a monumental hangover and, after kicking out the party-goers (Morn and Atoa) who ended up crashing for the night sluggishly orders a raktajino from the replicator . Worf arrives and tells Dax they have to talk; Sirella has canceled the wedding. Dax tries to sleep instead, but is prodded. She begins to explain what happened when the two hear voices coming from the adjoining room. Opening the door, they find Odo and Kira, who are still talking. Dax tells the two that it's 10:30, and the two quickly leave as they're both meant to be on duty. Worf tells Dax to go to Sirella and beg for forgiveness, to which she reacts angrily and tells Worf that all they should do is go to Captain Sisko and he can marry them instead. Worf is upset that Dax has so little regard for his traditions and feelings and sadly leaves, telling her that Sirella was right – there should be no wedding.

Act Five [ ]

Worf kisses the bride

O'Brien and Bashir enter Quark's bar where they see the Klingon banners being removed. Quark tells them that the wedding has been canceled. The two are sorry for Worf and Dax for a couple of seconds… then immediately order dinner.

Martok goes to speak with Worf who is brooding in his quarters aboard the USS Defiant and tells his friend he has made a mistake. Worf can't help but feel that Martok is right, but recent events have made it clear just how different he and Dax are – he is serious while she is fun, she has many marriages behind her while he is preparing for his first, he can't stand Quark while she plays Tongo with him, among many other things. As a result, Worf feels that love may not be enough in this case. Martok admits that Sirella is nothing like the woman he imagined he would marry; she has too much pride and vanity for his tastes, and yet he loves her with all his heart. Martok reminds Worf that honor and glory, things that Klingons prize above everything else, are worth nothing without someone to share it with.

O'Brien and Bashir are just about to eat a huge meal, when Sisko, Martok, and Alexander enter, telling them that the wedding is back on as Worf is apologizing to Dax. Sisko tells Quark to remove the food, that there should be no food for those on the path to Kal'Hyah . Quark tells them there are no refunds for those on the path to Kal'Hyah either, much to O'Brien and Bashir's dismay. However, Worf enters and tells them that Dax has refused to be married so the wedding is still off. Sisko decides to go and talk to his friend, telling the others to make sure Bashir and O'Brien don't eat anything.

Sisko goes to Dax's quarters where she is rearranging her items angrily. Dax finds the notion of apologizing to Sirella insulting, as she says she was once the Federation ambassador to the Klingon Empire and that she negotiated the Khitomer Accords before Worf was born. Sisko, determined to snap Dax out of her stubbornness, sternly reminds his friend it was Curzon who negotiated the accords, not her, and that she should go to Sirella and do whatever it takes to be forgiven, even if it involves grovelling. Sisko also tells Dax that if she cares so little for Klingon traditions she should never have fallen in love with Worf in the first place. Jadzia tells Sisko that her life was completely mapped out; friends, a career, but then one day a certain Klingon came aboard the station and all of a sudden she found herself falling in love with him. Dax realizes she has to apologize to Sirella, and thanks her old friend asking him whatever happened to the ensign she used to know. Sisko simply tells her he grew up. Dax responds by saying that she must as well.

In Quark's, several Klingons begin to beat Klingon drums . The marriage service is almost operatic . It relates the creation of the Klingons by the gods , who were later killed by their own creations. After Worf and Dax recite their vows, swearing to join with each other against all that oppose them, Sirella pronounces them married, and they kiss . Dax makes a gesture of respect to Sirella. Sirella then embraces Dax, welcoming her to the House of Martok and calling her "my daughter."

Bashir and O'Brien, still smarting after their grueling march on the path to Kal'hyah , have been hovering anxiously with their Ma'Stakas . Martok gives the word as soon as Sirella hugs Dax, and they bellow hearty war cries and charge the altar with their Ma'Stakas held high.

Memorable quotes [ ]

" Handsome young man… he must get his looks from his mother 's side. "

" As you probably know by now, Jadzia and I will be married here on the station in six days. " " There's nothing more romantic than a wedding on DS9 in springtime. " " …when the neutrinos are in bloom. "

" You've put on weight… and your hair is going grey. " " My… deterioration is proceeding apace. " " I thought you would be in your grave by now. " (laughing) " I shall endeavor to die, this year, if possible. "

" Sirella is a woman of strong convictions. She believes that by bringing aliens into our families we risk losing our identity as Klingons. " " That is a prejudiced, xenophobic view. " " We are Klingons, Worf. We don't embrace other cultures, we conquer them. "

" I had every right to bring you into the family, and she's accepted the fact that there's nothing she can do about it! " " How comforting. " "(bellowing with laughter) And they say you have no sense of humor! "

" We now begin a fast that will continue until the day of the wedding. " " That's four days away! " " It is a short time, I know, but we must make the best of it. "

" I sold my first book today. " " Really? How much did you get for it? " " It's just a figure of speech. The Federation News Service is going to publish a book of my stories about life on the station under Dominion rule. " " And they're not paying you? " " No. " " Well, then you have my sympathies, and the first round of drinks is on the house. " " Really? " " No. It's a figure of speech. "

" Miles… it's working. I've had a vision, about the future. I can see it so clearly. " " What is it? " " I'm gonna kill Worf. I'm gonna kill Worf. That's what I'm gonna do. I can see it clearly now, I'm going to kill… him… " " Kill Worf? " " Kill Worf. " " Kill Worf… Kill Worf! "

" We are not accorded the luxury of choosing the women we fall in love with. Do you think Sirella is anything like the woman I thought that I'd marry? She is a prideful, arrogant, mercurial woman who shares my bed far too infrequently for my taste. And yet… I love her deeply. We Klingons often tout our prowess in battle, our desire for glory and honor above all else… but how hollow is the sound of victory without someone to share it with? Honor gives little comfort to a man alone in his home… and in his heart . "

" This is Worf's fault! Worf and his traditional Klingon wedding! " " Well, he may have let this wedding business go to his head, but you are 356 years old. Compared to you, Worf is just a kid. And if you can't abide by Klingon traditions, then you never should have let yourself fall in love with him in the first place! And you are in love with him. " " I wasn't looking to fall in love. I was perfectly happy with myself. I had friends, a career, adventure. Then one day this Klingon with a bad attitude walked into my life and the next thing I know, I'm getting married. After 356 years and 7 lifetimes, I still lead with my heart. "

" To this very day, no one can oppose the beating of two Klingon hearts… Not even me. "

Background information [ ]

Story and script [ ].

• The working title of this episode was "Once Upon a Wedding". ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion - A Series Guide and Script Library )
• Ronald D. Moore saw this as an episode which would allow him to correct an inaccurate impression of Klingon society which he himself had created. After Star Trek: The Next Generation , Moore felt that he had (unintentionally) shoved Klingon women into the background, promoting the view that they were unimportant to the proper functioning of society. This dates back to TNG fourth season episode " Redemption " in which it is revealed that women cannot sit on the Klingon High Council . In subsequent Klingon episodes, women had virtually no role, and the whole society ended up appearing to be completely male dominated, almost like Ferengi society. This was something Moore was keen to rectify in this episode, and as such, he determined that if men rule the Council, then women rule the Houses, and that the mistress of a great House wields unchallenged power in terms of the functioning of that house, thus restoring a degree of balance to Klingon gender roles. ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? )
• Dax to Sirella: Tuq son bosh mok A'Beh Sirella koh. E'Gagh vet moh – "Enter my home and be welcome, Mistress Sirella. May you find it worthy."
• Sirella to Dax: Eck'taH roh masa qee'Plok – "May this be the first of many visits."
• Dax to Sirella: Toruk-DOH! – [A particularly vile Klingon curse]
• Sirella to Dax: Mok'Ta vor, kash a'VEH! – "You are an enemy of my House!"
• A question that does not seem to be addressed in this episode is where either the crew of the USS Enterprise or Worf's foster family are during Worf's wedding. The absence of the Enterprise crew would indeed be unusual considering the eight years Worf served with them and the personal connections they established. However, one possible explanation is that the Enterprise was too busy with a war -related task, and it may not have been safe enough for the Rozhenkos to travel to DS9 at such a volatile time. The wedding had also been abruptly rescheduled, giving potential guests only seven days notice. In reality, the producers had wanted the Enterprise crew to appear (albeit in non-speaking roles), but only LeVar Burton and Jonathan Frakes could be secured, mainly due to their having offices on the Paramount lot, and it was decided that it had to be all or nothing, so the plan was scrapped. ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? )
• The USS Sutherland was the ship that Lt. Commander Data captained in " Redemption II ". Ronald D. Moore had originally intended that the Sutherland be established in "You Are Cordially Invited" as something of a "party ship", and that whenever it came to the station , something wild would ensue. However, this aspect was dropped from the teleplay for time reasons. ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? ) The captain of the Sutherland is named as Captain Shelby . About this reference, Ronald D. Moore stated: " My intent when I wrote the line was that this was indeed the same Shelby from BOBW . I thought it was a cool reference to throw in for the fans, but I had completely forgotten that John Ordover and Co. [of Pocket Books ] had very specifically and very politely asked us if we had any intention of ever using this character again and we (including me) had said, "No way – do what you want with her." This very salient fact was pointed out to me after the show had aired and I had a rather sheepish conversation with Paula Block over in licensing and with John via e-mail explaining what had happened. Since I only used Shelby's last name in the episode, you're free to look at this either way – it's really her or it's someone else with the same last name (it's a big fleet, after all). " ( AOL chat , 1997 )
• Ronald D. Moore has speculated that Dax may have slept with Lieutenant Atoa had Sirella not interrupted the party. ( 24th Century Wedding , DS9 Season 6 DVD special features)
• A scene in the script, but not in the final episode, involved the Starfleet members clearing out their quarters, which had been occupied by various members of the Dominion. Doctor Bashir's quarters were occupied by Weyoun who was apparently fond of collecting various items and studying them in his quarters. The items included shoes , coasters, bits of string, broken bottles, power cells , picture frames, and chair legs. Nog 's quarters were in an even worse state and had been occupied by Jake Sisko . ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion - A Series Guide and Script Library )

Production [ ]

• To ensure the right level of energy for the party scenes, director David Livingston literally staged an actual party, including live music. He did this because it meant the actors had to shout on-set to be heard, which added an air of realism to the scene. As he explains, " With that drumming in the background, they had to be more active, they had to deal with it. If I'd have had them stop playing, the people would have toned down their performances ." ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. 564)
• Of the party scene in general, David Livingston comments, " The party scene I think everybody was afraid of, because it was so daunting, and I went into it saying, 'This is a great challenge.' Traditionally, party sequences on Star Trek end up not being very interesting; it's just people ending up standing around talking. But the writers infused it in the writing with a certain amount of energy by having a fire dancer, and I said to myself, 'I've got to bring that same kind of visual energy and excitement that they put on the page, otherwise it's going to be like a lot of the other Star Trek parties that aren't compelling and don't have any energy to them. My template was The Party starring Peter Sellers , filmed from the sixties, which just had this frenetic kind of energy, with people moving around all the time, and having somebody that walks bringing you to another scene that takes place there, so it's all continuous, you're not just cutting from one part of the room to the other, something brings you to the other scene that's occurring ." ( 24th Century Wedding , DS9 Season 6 DVD special features)
• The dance performed by Aron Eisenberg ( Nog ) was completely improvised on-set. David Livingston simply told Eisenberg to dance "as goofy as you want ." Terry Farrell joining in was also completely improvised. ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? ) Eisenberg has claimed that in his seven years on the show, this was the only time for him that a piece of improvisation made it into the final episode. ( 24th Century Wedding , DS9 Season 6 DVD special features)
• Director David Livingston had originally intended that the scene where Bashir and O'Brien discuss killing Worf was to be shot entirely in one long take that would start on their feet, then tilt upwards, before finally moving in for a two-shot. He ultimately decided against it because it meant that that the actors would genuinely have to hang from the rail for the duration of the take. ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? )
• J.G. Hertzler ( Martok ) and Shannon Cochran (Sirella) based their performances in their scene together on Benedick and Beatrice in Shakespeare 's Much Ado About Nothing . ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? )
• During the second take of the scene where Dax punches Sirella, Terry Farrell accidentally punched Shannon Cochran for real. ( 24th Century Wedding , DS9 Season 6 DVD special features)
• On filming the Kal'Hyah scenes, J.G. Hertzler commented: " That was another hoot. There was like a five thousand degree fire going on, it was a hot day outside, we were standing next to this fire pretending not to feel it because we're Klingons. Those other guys complained, those wimps, Colm and Sid, hanging from their little fingers over the fire, wimpy boys! " [2]
• J.G. Hertzler considers the scene where he considers picking up Sisko's baseball one of his favorite moments while working on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine . Hertzler commented: " That little moment was one of my favorites on the show. Its really about two actors playing with each other and has little if anything to do with the show. Technically, it could be called "secondary action" in terms of the method… but in this case, it was merely Avery and I having some fun with the world around us. Surely, Martok had never seen a baseball before and may have correctly identified the covering of the ball as the hide of some kind of animal. For all he knew it could be Targ . But Martok was very curious about the markings on the ball and the way it was made, meanwhile they were discussing an attack on Cardassia or some such monumental topic, and distracted by a baseball. Sisko may have been afraid Martok might have thought it to be food and taken a bite out of it… or some such action. So, we toyed with each other a bit and that is what we ended up with. Thanks for noticing the by-play. That's the story ". [3]
• Neither Nana Visitor nor Rene Auberjonois were happy with how the resolution between Kira and Odo was presented, i.e. off-screen. Ira Steven Behr was also unhappy with it and he has admitted, " that was a bad mistake ." The reason the scene was written that way was because of a last minute rewrite and no time to come up with anything else. As Ronald D. Moore explains, " We had originally planned that in this episode we were going to start having Odo lock himself away, refusing to mingle with anyone else on the station. The events of " Behind the Lines " and " Favor the Bold " had really shaken him and made him wonder, 'What am I doing, where do I belong, look at what I almost did.' So he was going to show up at the wedding and make an unexpected announcement. He would say, 'I've decided I can't be friends with any of you anymore, because clearly you can't trust me, so I need to go my own way. I'll do my job but that's it and that's all that's ever going to be.' And then he would walk out again. And the people there were going to go 'Whoa, what does this mean?' Then we were going to play Odo completely different for the rest of the season ." At the last minute however, Behr, Hans Beimler and Auberjonois came to Moore to inquire where the character was ultimately going to end up. Auberjonois in particular felt strongly about this new development, feeling that Odo was being alienated, and they wondered what Moore's ultimate plan was, how was he going to get Odo back into the fold. Unfortunately, he didn't have one, he hadn't thought that far ahead, so the plan was dropped at the last minute. As Moore says, " It felt wrong to take him out of the mix and alienate him from everybody without a clear idea in our heads about why we were doing it ." This change in plans however, left no time for Moore to write a deep scene of resolution between Odo and Kira. He does acknowledge however, that his off-screen solution wasn't entirely successful; " I know Nana and Rene don't like it, and some of the fans don't like it, and I don't like it. It's just one of those things that we had to do because we were out of time, and I felt that I had to do something so that it didn't seem as if we hadn't even touched on it ." ( Star Trek: Deep Space Nine Companion , p. ? )

Reception [ ]

• Terry Farrell commented " I felt like a queen for a day in that dress. I have to tell you, I never thought that I'd feel so great in red leather, even though it was 104 degrees on the set. I'm 34 years old, I have never been married and I sometimes wonder if I ever will be. So it was cool to wear that dress and to pretend with a good friend like Michael, who's also not married, that I was getting married. It was like being a little girl again and playing Barbie. Michael was my Klingon Ken and I was his leather-clad Barbie! ("Farrell's Fate", Star Trek Monthly  issue 43 ) Terry Farrell hates the shot where she enters Quark's and walks up to the altar, because she feels that she looks " a bit like a truck driver walking up in this wedding dress ." The reason for this is that the Klingon boots she had to wear were too big for her, and she didn't have time to rehearse with them. During the shoot, she thought she had covered up her discomfort, but when she saw the completed show she realized that she hadn't. In 2002, when discussing the scene, she said simply, " yeah, that wasn't so good ." ( 24th Century Wedding , DS9 Season 6 DVD special features) Farrell would don the costume again in 2014 at the Star Trek Las Vegas con. [4]
• Collin Kelly commented: " Now, call me a hopeless romantic, but 'You Are Cordially Invited' – the marriage of Jadzia and Worf – is an amazing and passionate celebration of inclusivity and respect that thrills me to my toes every time" . ( Star Trek: Waypoint Special )
• A Swedish couple were inspired to have a Klingon-themed wedding by the episode. [5]
• Paramount's promotion of the episode included an "invitation", which noted " Paramount cordially invited you to bear witness to the exchange of nuptials between two Star Trek series regulars for the first time in Star Trek history ". [6]
• This episode marks the final appearance of Alexander Rozhenko on Star Trek .
• In this episode, it's revealed that Jadzia Dax 's father's name is Kela , and that the Dax symbiont is 356 years old . It is also revealed that Curzon Dax negotiated the Khitomer Accords.
• O'Brien wonders why Worf and Dax's wedding is abruptly canceled when Quark tells him. His wedding to Keiko was also briefly called off at the beginning of TNG : " Data's Day ".
• This episode marks the first and only appearance of the modified TNG dress uniform before the adoption of the dress whites introduced in Star Trek: Insurrection .
• In the party scene, Kira can be seen wearing the bracelet given to her by Tekeny Ghemor .
• The chime to Worf's room is the same as Picard's chime to his ready room in TNG.

Remastered version [ ]

• Remastered footage from the episode is featured in the documentary What We Left Behind .

Apocrypha [ ]

• The conversation that Kira and Odo have in this episode is revealed in a series of flashbacks in the Olympus Descending novella in the Deep Space Nine relaunch series Worlds of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine .
• Reference is made to the absence of the Enterprise crew in the Star Trek / X-Men crossover Planet X , when Worf, visiting the Enterprise , apologizes for not waiting for them, saying that there was no time due to Alexander needing to leave in a short time. Captain Picard , however, assures Worf that he understands, and the entire senior staff toasts Worf's marriage in a private celebration of their own shortly before the arrival of the X-Men.

Video and DVD releases [ ]

• UK VHS release (two-episode tapes, CIC Video ): Volume 6.4, 4 May 1998
• As part of the DS9 Season 6 DVD collection

Links and references [ ]

Starring [ ].

• Avery Brooks as Captain Sisko

Also starring [ ]

• Rene Auberjonois as Odo
• Michael Dorn as Lt. Commander Worf
• Terry Farrell as Lt. Commander Dax
• Cirroc Lofton as Jake Sisko
• Colm Meaney as Chief O'Brien
• Armin Shimerman as Quark
• Alexander Siddig as Doctor Bashir
• Nana Visitor as Major Kira

Guest stars [ ]

• J.G. Hertzler as Martok
• Marc Worden as Alexander Rozhenko
• Shannon Cochran as Sirella
• Chase Masterson as Leeta
• Aron Eisenberg as Nog
• Max Grodénchik as Rom

Co-star [ ]

• Sidney Liufau as Manuele Atoa

Uncredited co-stars [ ]

• Ivy Borg as Rita Tannenbaum
• Cathy DeBuono as M'Pella
• Terry Green as operations lieutenant
• Randy James as Jones
• Dan Magee as operations lieutenant
• Robin Morselli as Bajoran officer
• Mark Allen Shepherd as Morn
• James Lee Stanley as Bajoran security deputy
• Chester E. Tripp III
• Brenda-Jean Wright as sciences officer
• Benzite civilian
• Bolian male
• Sutherland band

References [ ]

2018 ; Alpha Quadrant ; Altair sandwich ; assassination ; Bajoran shrimp ; Bajoran wormhole ; baked potato ; banner ; battle cruiser ; best man ; boiling ; book ; boss ; Bre'Nan ; career ; check valve ; cheese ; chives ; The Dark Time ; Dax (symbiont) ; Dax, Curzon ; day off ; d'k tahg ; Dominion ; Dukat ; fast ; Federation ; Ferengi ; figure of speech ; flag ; generation ; gesture ; good luck charm ; grandmother ; Hamar Mountains ; headquarters ; heart ; holosuite program ; holosuite ; hydraulic fluid ; hydrostatic system ; intelligence officer ; Kal'Hyah ; Kahless the Unforgettable ; Karana ; kava ; kava juice ; K'Ehleyr ; kava juice ; Kela ; Khitomer Accords ; kiss ; Klingon ; Klingon Empire ; Klingon mythology ; Klingon wedding ; Klingonese ; K'Trelan ; linguini ; Linkasa ; Ma'Stakas ; mapa bread ; maternal ; mistress ; Mogh ; Molor ; Molor's troops ; Morn ; mushrooms ; mustard ; neutrino ; Ninth Fleet ; O'Brien, Keiko ; " Old Man "; paperwork ; prejudice ; Promenade ; pump ; Quark's ; Qo'noS ; raktajino ; Reclaw ; Reclaw ; Rozhenko, Helena ; Rozhenko, Sergey ; saga ; Samoan firedance ; Second Dynasty ; sense of humor ; Shelby ; Shenara ; shoe ; shoulder ; Sisko, Jake ; slut ; soldier ; sour cream ; spitting ; spring ; squeezing ; stable ; Starfleet Command ; Starfleet Fleets ; steak ; supreme commander ; tallow ; targ ; Tawi'Yan ; Third Dynasty ; tongo ; Toruk'DoH ; Trill ; var'Hama candle ; wedding ; writer ; xenophobic

Starship references [ ]

Agaki , USS [sic]; Bajoran interceptor ( unnamed ); Defiant -class ; Defiant , USS ; Exeter , USS ; Galaxy -class ( unnamed ); Klingon Bird-of-Prey ( unnamed ); Late , USS ; Miranda -class ( unnamed ); NCC-4186 ; Potemkin , USS ; Rotarran , IKS ; Sutherland , USS ; Trial , USS ; Vor'cha -class ( unnamed 1 , and 2 ); Ya'Vang , IKS ; Yeager -type ; Yeager , USS

Unreferenced material [ ]

Keltar ; Torva ; Year of Kahless

External links [ ]

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• " You are Cordially Invited... " at Wikipedia
• " You Are Cordially Invited " at MissionLogPodcast.com
• "You Are Cordially Invited..." script at Star Trek Minutiae
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Published Nov 10, 2022

You Are Still Cordially Invited to Worf and Jadzia Dax's Wedding

Let's look back at the classic Deep Space Nine episode!

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Star Trek has been the host to many love affairs, marriages and relationships. Kirk shared too many to mention, Spock too few, and Scotty had a singular love of the U.S.S. Enterprise (and a good scotch). We saw Picard fall for Vash; Riker and Troi spend years winding their way to marriage; Keiko and O’Brien experience both ups and downs; and Tom Paris and B'Elanna Torres figure it out in the Delta Quadrant.

But no relationship was quite as unique as that of Commander Worf and Lieutenant Commander Jadzia Dax . Immediately attracted to each other, Jadzia used her hard-earned knowledge of the Klingon ways to break down the implacable Worf, and soon they were embarking upon an ever-growing relationship that led to the seventh episode of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine ’s penultimate season, “ You Are Cordially Invited... ”

The episode launched with a traditional Captain’s Log:

“ Captain's Personal Log, Stardate 51247.5. It's been a week since our return to Deep Space 9 , but the mood of celebration continues. We're still at war, and the station has been designated headquarters for the Ninth Fleet. That, plus our strategic position guarding the wormhole, makes DS9 one of the most tempting targets in the entire Quadrant. But for now at least, the war seems very far away ."

As the Federation returned to DS9, life aboard the station attempted to regain some semblance of normality. Sisko was pleased to be back, working once again with Major Kira and General Martok, freshly appointed as the Supreme Commander of the Ninth Fleet (and all the paperwork that comes with it).

Meanwhile, Commanders Worf and Jadzia Dax continued to prepare for their long-awaited wedding. Dax agreed to undergo the traditional evaluation by the mistress of the house she was due to join. General Martok’s wife, Sirella, made it clear, much to Jadzia’s surprise, that she fell far short of her expectations and would fail to find favor with the matriarch. Worf attempted to intercede, asking Martok to help, but the General refused, instead agreeing to take part in the Kal'Hyah, a Klingon bachelor party. Filled with blood-letting, ceremony, torture and fasting, the “party” is far from the rousing, raucous event O’Brien, Bashir, Sisko and Alexander anticipated.

Dax is having her own trials to contend with as Sirella continued to make it clear that she believed there was no place within the House of Martok for someone like Jadzia. Dax continued to grit her teeth and endure, telling the story of the Second Dynasty and how one of Sirella’s ancestors was in fact the emperor’s concubine. Sirella was less than impressed at that revelation.

Later, Dax threw her own pre-wedding party, a lively event with fire-eaters, drinking and dancing. Sirella arrived, ordering Dax to leave the party and come with her to take the Bre'Nan ritual. Jadzia refused, and after a brief scuffle with Sirella, the party continued until the early hours. Half-asleep, Dax is angry when Worf asked that she go and apologize to Sirella, and sadly agreed with the matriarch – if Jadzia had such low regard for Klingon tradition, perhaps the wedding was a bad idea.

Martok tracked down Worf to the Defiant , brooding in his quarters, and tries to convince him to reconsider his decision to cancel the wedding. While Worf and Dax were clearly from very different worlds, with vastly different opinions and views on life, they complemented each other perfectly. Honor and glory are nothing without someone to share it with.

Sisko finds Dax in a furious mood, angrily rearranging her quarters. She is annoyed that she's required to grovel to Sirella, given her long service and her former role as Federation ambassador to the Klingons. Sisko reminds her that it was Dax, not Jadzia, who accomplished those things, and urges her to reconsider and apologize. Jadzia realizes he is right.

The ceremony went ahead, as Worf and Dax united and vowed to stand together against all enemies who might oppose them.

Of course, viewers watching know that their time together was to be short-lived. Jadzia, the 8th host of the 356-year-old Dax symbiont, would lose her life at the conclusion of the sixth season in “ Tears of the Prophets ,” bringing her marriage to Worf to an abrupt, tragic end. Even knowing this, fans should be grateful that we were able to celebrate Worf and Dax in this way. Perhaps Lady Sirella, with her peace made with Jadzia and officiating their wedding as Mistress of the House of Martok, said it best:

"To this very day, no one can oppose the beating of two Klingon hearts... Not even me."

Star Trek History: You Are Cordially Invited...

This article was originally published on January 4, 2019.

Mark Newbold has been an avid Trek fan since the 1970s, when TOS was shown on UK TV, but it was the original cast movie series and TNG era that sealed the deal. Mark is a writer for Star Trek: The Official Magazine , is editor-in-Chief of Star Trek: The Neutral Zone and was a stage host at Destination Star Trek Germany in 2018. At heart, he's a Niner. Follow him on Twitter @Prefect_Timing.

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